Shakirah Forde

Tips to Stop Overthinking in The Talking Stage

The Talking Stage  The “talking stage” of a romantic relationship is a delicate and often undefined period where two individuals engage in getting to know each other more deeply, without the pressure of formal labels or commitments. This stage serves as a foundational phase, where conversations and shared experiences help both parties gauge their compatibility, […]

The Best Powerful Quotes For Radical Self – Love

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The Foundation of Radical Self-Love In a world increasingly dominated by idealized images of beauty and success, the concept of self-love emerges not just as an act of personal acceptance but as a revolutionary act. This revolutionary perspective challenges the pervasive norms of body shame and the trance of unworthiness that many of us navigate […]

60 Quotes to Make You Smile and Brighten up Your Day

Instant Mood Life In a world that often seems filled with challenges and stresses, finding reasons to smile can sometimes feel like a daunting task. Yet, the simple act of smiling has the remarkable power to transform our mood and create ripples of positivity around us.  A warm smile, emerging genuinely from the heart, can […]

Why OCD Lies: Understanding Compulsive Behaviors

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  OCD is A Liar Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD) is a complex mental health condition that affects millions of people worldwide. Characterized by unwanted, recurrent thoughts (obsessions) and repetitive behaviors (compulsions), OCD can significantly impact an individual’s daily life and well-being. This disorder is a manifestation of anxiety that compels sufferers to engage in ritualistic or […]

30 Days to a Happier You: The Ultimate Self-Care Planner Guide

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The Concept of Self-Care and Its Importance Welcome to our journey towards a more fulfilling life! In today’s fast-paced world, the term ‘self-care’ has become not just a buzzword, but a crucial element in maintaining our mental, physical, and emotional well-being. At its core, self-care is about taking the time to attend to your personal […]

Breaking Free from Emotional Fatigue: Practical Steps to Regain Your Energy

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What is Emotional Fatigue Welcome to our exploration of a silent yet pervasive challenge that affects countless individuals: emotional fatigue. This term, often overshadowed by its more physical and mental health counterparts, refers to a state of overwhelming emotional exhaustion. It stems from prolonged periods of emotional stress, whether due to personal life challenges, professional […]

Navigating Challenges: How to Deal with a Depressed Spouse?

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Introduction Depression is a condition that affects millions worldwide, silently weaving its way into lives and relationships with often profound impacts. Characterized by persistent sadness, lack of interest in enjoyable activities, and a range of emotional and physical problems, depression can drastically alter the dynamics of a marital relationship. It is not just a battle […]

How do you know if you’re depressed?

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My personal story I was diagnosed with Major Depression about 3-4 years ago. Looking back, I should have been diagnosed decades before. I beat myself up about it a little. How could I not know. Im a therapist! I know the signs. The problem was, I wasn’t doing much reflection. I was giving so much […]

Winter Wellness: 7 Mental Health Tips for Winter

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The Winter Wellness Challenge I have had several winters where the change in seasons has kicked my ass. The weird part is that it seems to happen “out of no where” and every year once I realize whats happening, I’m in total shock lol. This my friends is called denial. Luckily, I know Im not […]

Delving Deeper: Shadow Work Prompts For Beginners

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What is Shadow Work? Shadow work, a term deeply rooted in Jungian psychology, refers to the process of introspecting and confronting the unconscious parts of our psyche—those aspects of ourselves we choose to deny or suppress. It is akin to diving into the underbelly of our minds, shedding light on the dark corners of our […]

Finding Peace: Acceptance and Moving On Quotes to Inspire You

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Obtain Peace Life, with its myriad of experiences, often presents us with challenges that test our resilience, patience, and ability to adapt. One of the most transformative life skills we can cultivate is the power of acceptance and the grace of moving on. As humans, we often grapple with situations beyond our control, and feelings […]

Happiness is a choice: The Mindset shift of choosing to be Happy

Finding Joy VS Being Joy We’ve all heard it before: “If only I had a better job, a larger house, or a more understanding partner, then I’d be truly happy.” This sentiment encapsulates a widespread belief that happiness is largely, if not entirely, a product of external circumstances. Many people wander through life chasing these […]

7 Signs You Care Too Much About What Others Think

Human beings, as inherently social creatures, harbor an innate desire for acceptance and validation from their peers. This inherent inclination can be traced back to our ancestors, who depended on communal living for survival, protection, and prosperity. Being accepted within a community was crucial, shaping our evolutionary biology to value social harmony and approval from […]

Harvest Moon 2023: Clearing What No Longer Serves You

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What is the Harvest Moon? The Harvest Moon is a celestial event steeped in lore, culture, and spiritual symbolism, appearing in the sky to cast its radiant glow on the fields below the horizon. This enchanting moon is traditionally known to rise around the time of the autumnal equinox, marking a period of transition and […]

20 Journal Prompts for Self Esteem

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Understanding Self-Esteem These journal prompts for self esteem are aimed at. increasing self love and encouraging positive self talk. Self-esteem, at its core, refers to how we perceive and value ourselves. It’s the judgment we hold about our own worth, and it influences every facet of our lives—from the way we approach challenges to how […]

20 Journal Prompts for Anxiety and Depression

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The concept of Journaling In the vast landscape of human emotions, there lie valleys of anxiety and plateaus of depression. Navigating these terrains often requires tools, anchors, and aids, and one such powerful tool is journaling. A time-honored practice, journaling extends beyond mere documentation of life’s events. It acts as a bridge, helping individuals connect […]

How to Be Alone

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I am so grateful that you have chosen to spend a few moments with me today. Know that as you read these words, you are part of a greater community of souls on a journey of healing, growth, and self-discovery. Even though we may walk this path together, sharing wisdom and experiences, it’s crucial to […]